Curried Crab legs and Dumplings

There’s no shame in my game when it comes on to food. As an unapologetic foodie, I love trying new recipes in my kitchen, my happy place, CreativeAjay’s Kitchen. This weekend, I yielded to my cravings and whipped up a seafood specialty. And I loved it. It was tasty and flavorful…

When You Serve as Your Own Reality Check

Someone texted me a pic of myself taken when I was 18. I examined it closely. Yes, that is me, and yes, I was lean AF. Peep the fashion though… If I remember clearly, at that age, the extent of my workouts was simply walking: no gym, no weights, no abdominal exercises. Yet, I had…

Boseman, Sleep On Bro…#Wakandaforever

The world has lost another great one: Chadwick Boseman, and I find it incredibly hard to process. Among the many roles he has played, one of the most memorable is when he brought King T’Challa to life as the Black Panther in the “Black Panther.” Oh how he moved so adroitly with such style…

When you have checked all the boxes but have not checked the RACE box

My days of tuning in to reality dating shows like the Bachelor or the Bachelorette are over. I really don’t have the time to devote hours to a show that cannot improve my life, or that had very little to offer. In general, my television screen time pales in comparison to that of my…

I Managed to Kill my Palm! – Confessions of a New Plant Mom

Some time ago I wrote about being mom to a few green kiddos – a plant mom that is. I wrote with all the enthusiasm that would be expected of a new mom. But, there is a huge life update:  I managed to kill my majesty palm, and one of my golden pothoses seem to…

When One of us Cannot Breathe, ALL of us Cannot Breathe: The Killing of George Floyd – Reigniting Racial Tensions and Police Brutality in the U.S.

Six years ago, the world watched as Eric Garner was stripped of his last breath for selling cigarettes without the proper authority in Staten Island, New York. “I can’t breathe” were the final words he managed to utter 12 times in an attempt to save his own life. However, that didn’t stir a…

What is Getting me Through the Quarantine: Diary of a New Plant Mom

I recently became a new mom…a new mom of 6…..of 6 plants that is, and I’m proud to announce that I’ve been keeping them alive. The oldest, my majesty palm, I’ve had for a month. To be honest, she was recently pruned, as one of her poor fronds showed little…

Smell the Roses While You Can: My Experience with COVID-19

The coronavirus is upon us: a virus that has proven to be beyond harmful and quite deadly to say the least. I have never experienced such panic, fear, and hysteria brought about by a single invader – a biological pathogen—a microorganism—something that we cannot even see.  People who are infected with the virus…

Upping the Dental Care Game in 2020: My experience with the Sonicare 6100 Toothbrush.

I tried a new toothbrush and it changed my life! Last week, I decided to bite the bullet and make my first $100 toothbrush purchase. For a toothbrush this price, it better make my coffee in the mornings, cook my dinner, do my laundry..…you get what I mean. I was never one that is…

Let’s Slow Down With the Run-on Sentences

Let’s slow down on the use of run-on sentences. In fact, let’s stop using them altogether!  What are run-on sentences? Run-on sentences are sentences that as the name suggests, are not separated by a punctuation but they “run” into each other. When your sentence has two independent clauses and…